Setting Limits Part 2

Understanding and Implementing Firm and Soft Limits

In the last post we read about the 2 basic varieties of Limits: Firm and Soft. Following table is a
comparison between them to get a clear view:

I recommend starting off with practicing the Firm Limits, all individuals are unique they learn and acquire skills at different rates. Choose a pace that is comfortable for all of you. For some it may be adding 1 or 2 rules a week and then consistently adding other ones simultaneously. CHANGE is stressful for everyone even if it is a positive change. Mistakes are bound to happen which is OKAY. Work for improvement, not perfection.